Gender Awareness in Sports

Growing up, I was always encouraged to try new things and never to quit because I did not enjoy something. No matter what I tried, whether it was a board game, dance lessons, or sports I had a strong support system within my family. My father was not blessed with a boy to carry on the family name, but was given two beautiful girls that would teach him a thing or two. However, he soon realized that just because we were not the rugged boys he one day hoped to have, but two children looking up to their father to teach them the lessons of life.

We soon learned that nothing was ever handed to us and everything we wanted in life had to be worked for to our fullest potential. This lesson started at a very young age as we worked with Dad in the garage building book shelves and helping out in the yard. When our work was done, he would teach us to play sports and all of the rules. We would sit with him during football, basketball, and baseball season intrigued by the knowledge he has to share with us. When it came down to it, we were learning and doing most things boys our age did not do and still don't know how to do.

Because my father took the time to instill one of life's greatest lessons, I was given the opportunity to play in a variety of sports throughout my life. Some on a higher skilled level and others with the kids in the neighborhood. I was never taught that I couldn't be better than someone, male or female, if I worked to my fullest potential. But at the same time, I learned that there can and almost always will be someone better than me, male and/or female.

I am sure some of you are wondering, what is the point here? I am here to tell you that no matter who you are or the sport you play, gender will not make a difference when it all comes down to it. The passion and commitment to the game is what is important, not the difference of skill level between male and female.